tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post2895265427582740843..comments2023-11-10T02:18:23.772-08:00Comments on Minnesota Matron: My Dream Of YouMinnesota Matronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16565431067927240183noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-39897688980196489412008-05-22T05:26:00.000-07:002008-05-22T05:26:00.000-07:00Years ago, I picked up "Are you Somebody?" mainly ...Years ago, I picked up "Are you Somebody?" mainly because the title seemed so strange, different, and really, a question so universally appealing. <BR/><BR/>And then I was gripped with this insane need to love somebody. Those few lines stuck.<BR/><BR/>Like Joan Didion, she expounds such hard, harsh truths, but in more simple, accessible language. <BR/><BR/>What does happen to all that knowledge once one passes? Having lost her entire immediate family within two short years, Didion states her lack of fear of dying, since most of the sadness and the fear stems from leaving behind those most loved.<BR/><BR/>Compare this to Randy Pausch in his now famous "The Last Lecture." Beauty has not been drained from life, but must be crammed into every small, remaining conceivable space in the short time remaining.<BR/><BR/>So few answers.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for this post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-39852813240948007822008-05-21T08:36:00.000-07:002008-05-21T08:36:00.000-07:00I read Nuala's autobiography a couple of years ago...I read Nuala's autobiography a couple of years ago and was changed. She had a true and unique voice, and I'm so glad she shared it with us.<BR/><BR/>We almost named our daughter Nuala, but went for Nora instead. Close.She Shehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07107099719510763729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-55654026412730614262008-05-21T05:46:00.000-07:002008-05-21T05:46:00.000-07:00My Dream of You is an amazing, amazing book. I fel...My Dream of You is an amazing, amazing book. I felt like I'd entered someone else's psyche. Which I guess is sort of what happened.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-74589562702558860132008-05-20T11:06:00.000-07:002008-05-20T11:06:00.000-07:00the dream is the ticket. holding onto it at this ...the dream is the ticket. holding onto it at this point in our lives is the challenge. i guess it always is but seems more so now when we are juggling the family and all.... thanks for this post.Madgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14905740781186585499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-60257289441486609502008-05-20T08:09:00.000-07:002008-05-20T08:09:00.000-07:00You inspire. I'm going to check this out.You inspire. I'm going to check this out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-75470720442570915892008-05-20T07:37:00.000-07:002008-05-20T07:37:00.000-07:00What a great post....so true. I just ordered the ...What a great post....so true. I just ordered the book and look forward to the weeping.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for the suggestion.Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06590585650894114884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-84228235430494329082008-05-20T06:34:00.000-07:002008-05-20T06:34:00.000-07:00Reckless and Amazing would definitely look good on...Reckless and Amazing would definitely look good on the the ol' tombstone!<BR/><BR/>Thanks MM - you are an inspiration.<BR/><BR/>I want to weep and roar with you -<BR/><BR/>xoxoBonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11647378550913763567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-56675442797825153672008-05-20T05:06:00.000-07:002008-05-20T05:06:00.000-07:00I'm not familiar with her - yet....but Mrs G descr...I'm not familiar with her - yet....but Mrs G describes her life as reckless and amazing....<BR/>I think it's better to be those things than have regrets about NOT doing things later in life.<BR/><BR/>Anyhow reckless and amazing is always more interesting.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-69515924657467404582008-05-19T23:46:00.000-07:002008-05-19T23:46:00.000-07:00I hadn't heard this news, and I'm sad with you now...I hadn't heard this news, and I'm sad with you now. I remember reading My Dream of You, and how much I loved it. She was an amazing writer, and now I want to go back and read her again. <BR/><BR/>For now, I will listen to the interview and be sad. And inspired.Jennifer Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16239563357592230711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-86558340213873950612008-05-19T20:58:00.000-07:002008-05-19T20:58:00.000-07:00Two of my many favourite authors mentioned in one ...Two of my many favourite authors mentioned in one post! <BR/>Shields and O'Faolain are authors whose books I keep on reading over and over again - as I do with Atwood and Laurence (Margarets both)Allmyckehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03618880904953965190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-12135537572751395792008-05-19T20:47:00.000-07:002008-05-19T20:47:00.000-07:00It's a big coincidence, but that is the book I am ...It's a big coincidence, but that is the book I am reading right now and I am enjoying it a lot. I just finished Are you Somebody? <BR/><BR/>She was a great woman! What a waste of a human being.Norahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14543678444899992860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-74695183285776593742008-05-19T20:22:00.000-07:002008-05-19T20:22:00.000-07:00Thank you. I'll check for these titles at the love...Thank you. I'll check for these titles at the lovely Washington County library in Woodbury. I still can't get over that they have a coffee bar/ice cream place attached AND you can bring both food and beverages into the library. Not that I've done so--I was taught Thou Shalt Not Bring Food or Beverages Into the Library is the 13th commandment.Ari_1965https://www.blogger.com/profile/08417052454179392190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-53118056684862367902008-05-19T19:52:00.000-07:002008-05-19T19:52:00.000-07:00I'm not sure how I missed that Nuala O'Faolain die...I'm not sure how I missed that Nuala O'Faolain died last week. I will go and read her interview. Her memoir Are You Somebody? is so good. What a beautiful post-I think I will put her picture beside my bed for a while to remember her bold life and some of the amazing (and reckless!) choices she made in her life.Mrs. G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01171997573144385692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-92036146597330701192008-05-19T19:22:00.000-07:002008-05-19T19:22:00.000-07:00Oh... that was a really poetic post, and you gave ...Oh... that was a really poetic post, and you gave me some good inspirations to check out...<BR/><BR/>You had me in the beginning, but you lost me at Lost. I just can't give up Lost. I can't! I won't!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-75481851088609188042008-05-19T19:18:00.000-07:002008-05-19T19:18:00.000-07:00Thank *you* for writing. I think that's part of wh...Thank *you* for writing. I think that's part of why all of us blog. I know it's made me so much more creative IRL to be messing around online. Some because of the actual practice of writing daily and some because of the community. I heart your words. Will have to check Nuala out.JessTrevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11000531822628182708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-75577360672995836862008-05-19T19:14:00.000-07:002008-05-19T19:14:00.000-07:00My friend died at 46 almost a month ago--it comfor...My friend died at 46 almost a month ago--it comforts us all to know he spent so much time fulfilling his dream of being a cinematographer. It really does make a difference.Jenn @ Juggling Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14455967210924573398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7381811875173852585.post-24283837590135640312008-05-19T19:11:00.000-07:002008-05-19T19:11:00.000-07:00Oh, punkin'. See? I love/d Nuala, too; yet I just...Oh, punkin'. See? I love/d Nuala, too; yet I just found out tonight, as I downloaded last week's Fresh Air podcasts, that she had died. <BR/><BR/>Then you mention Carol Shields and Mary Oliver, and now I'm moving in with you. Warn Dat Hell Dog.<BR/><BR/>Hey, totally random: so if you need another woman writer hero, and if you haven't read FUN HOME by Alison Bechdel, try that. She can become another author to admire. In addition to your own self.Jocelynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03227519811818290510noreply@blogger.com